A Motivation for Adoption – An ‘Adopted Child’ Story

Defending Adoption – Motivation for Adoption

Read this piece with sincerity of heart. Cast your stone into the marketplace if all buyers and sellers are foes of yours. this is not just a motivation for adoption but sad my society today has made so much muse about adoption

Haven’t you read from any book that. We must not all get rich but for the sons and daughters of the most high that we shall at all time when we seek, find ?

Last week, Thursday specifically, A brother won N497,000 on a N150 stake bet, It was massive, nobody expected it, I wasn’t there, I was never gonna be there, but he called me on phone to give his testimony, He also begged me to come over to a fish pepper-soup joint where we could catch some freaking moments together with some other dudes.

Me? I can like that joint’s fish for anything. So I couldn’t decline, I took up my mobiles and moved, I had told myself a N3000 plate of fish and a Hollandia yoghurt would go while on the bike.. That was all I can get from the luck… The truth is, He owns the bet shop, I really can’t tell if he had lost more prior to that win, so i may only wait to get whatever I am offered. Thoughts of a salivating hungry young man.

Immediately I arrived there, heavy rain showers began, it only made the condition for the pepper-soup perfect.

After few minutes, The ship dock and our chat grew from one topic to the other up to a moment we started the discussion about the best fish cook in town and her ‘supposed’ new born baby..

At this moment, my mouth shut, the pepper from my dish started increasing as I move my eyeballs gazing at my fellows talking about ladies who faked pregnancy, adopted children and claim they delivered the child.

Names were called, Me?, I behaved like a Chinese boy starring at a Spanish film, Yet I had many thought of “how the hell” do we go wrong always. what is now wrong when someone has to adopt a child.

1). It is not a crime to be barren, infertile or impotent. Sincerely it hurts real bad to find out one is so disenfranchised by mother nature, nevertheless after all works and restlessness to do a correction no matter how much, it should dawn on you that you did your best.

Now you decide to adopt, why fake pregnancy?. It’s tough but I may need a good reason why. Just go ahead, adopt and be proud of the baby.

2). Adopted babies are human , It is in nature’s purpose for luck on some of these babies that the challenge of barrenness arises.. Take it in good fate, Accept it, Adopt and be proud parent of your child like you birth the baby..

3). Over to the original owners, who gave up of the kids up for adoption or even abandoned the innocent babies somewhere, Wasn’t it because of same unhealthy pressure we mount on unlucky marriages that they dump their fruits.

We seriously need to help our community if not economically at least through mutual acknowledgement and moral uplift, Let’s not stay negative on moves to accept nature’s permutation.

Let’s stop breaking marriages because no child is born, Remember some kids need parents too. So When you Adopt, Don’t do so in shame. Here is a motivation for adoption.

You’re not alone, and can be better than them who mock you on the long run.