Between the People Always Around You and the People There For You

Never confuse people that are always around you, with those who are always there for you. True Friends are like diamonds, Precious but rare, False friends are like autumn leaves, found everywhere

One can be surrounded by a large number of people and feeling completely alone. As it often happens, what counts is not quantity but quality. Some people can be in touch with you but not connected to you, never confuse these as well.

Be clear on who have helped, assisted and guided you compared to those who have simply hung around you for their own gain. Know how to spot the difference as this is how you can make an impact to those who really matter in your life; You’ll be left in no doubt which camp they belong to until when you face tough times. There’s a world of difference between those who stand behind you, and those who ride your coattails.

Note that the bug that entered your clothing is the only one which has direct access to you, and can decide to treat you “friendly” or “bite” you! There are two types of people in all of our circles; those who have the spirit to make you, and those who will break you!

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It’s not those who agree with us always that will stand by us in any situation, in fact they may be riding on the waves called opportunity and quickly abandon us for another. The ones that have been our greatest critics may be the ones who will stop by and also may give a push.

Don’t look to find good people, look to find the good in people. Everyone has some good in them. Find it and help it to grow. Alternatively, don’t look to find a good person, be a good person. Then when you are a good person, teach others to be good people through love and understanding. Being a good person you will thoughtfully find the good in the people around you by practicing a positive attitude.

So in-spite of the risk… It is good to respect every one no matter what… till we cannot tell who is waiting to pull our leg down or hold our ladder. When it’s time to face the challenges. Eureka… facades will drop and truth prevail.

Not much people understand this idea. Until some incident strikes them hard, till they realized that someone who always was there for them already left them behind and only then they feel inner regret. What’s then left becomes those who just take you for fun or just to fill their time. Such sad condition to the one who doesn’t really appreciate the precious.

Some people are like guardian angels, always by our side to give us care and attention.

They make our lives easier, not only because they bring about wonderful things, but also because they protect us from pain.

They give us care and affection so that we’ll feel appreciated, safe, and supported when life gets complicated or when we feel upset or disappointed about something that’s important to us. They’re always there for us, knowing just what to say or do to make us feel better

In short “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. This rule is what we all have to learn and too bad that a lot of us learn it the hard way

Stay close to those that are always there for you because they will be there when you need them the most!! They are your real friends and are so few. Appreciate them because they will not always be here forever! Life is short.

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Most of the people who are around us try to squeeze us like sugar canes and get the best out of us! At the same time if looked at it positively, the experience and the exposure one gets could be priceless

You can never say that if a person is always in touch with you is always there to help you. Sometimes it is the other way around. My take is you do good to people and they remember it if you make a habit to be nice, sooner or later it is going to return to you. There is an invisible trust forming between people, which comes up in the time of need.

In life we will have many acquaintances but only a few good friends. Good friends are the people who have your back when you need it but are honest enough and care enough to tell you when you’re wrong. One never knows what type of people are around or if you should even trust them fully. You might be there for them but don’t believe they will be there for you.