Seeing the Benefits of Enemies and Haters through Atom Structure

Enjoying the Availability of Enemies and Haters Like Atoms Do

Comparing the Structure of an Atom to Our Enemies and Haters

When people complain that they’re surrounded by enemies, i laugh. I mean, have you really studied the structure of an atom? An atom has a central nucleus with neutrons and protons. Protons being positively charged (positive vibes) cohabiting with the neutrons in the center of the atom. Outside this nucleus are orbits with electrons orbiting round the nucleus. These electrons are negatively charged (negative vibes). Now, imagine the structure of an atom without the electrons. It means the atom can not be. It will not be chemically balanced.

Imagine your own life without one or two enemies. Have you checked? Not even one enemy? It then means you’ve not been living. You’ve not really stood for something. You’re rather just existing. This is not me encouraging you to have enemies if you don’t have or to go about creating enemies. All I’m saying is that you cannot be really successful in the actual sense of being successful without having one or two enemies. I choose to liken our lives to the structure of an atom. Atoms have electrons to keep them chemically balanced. We have enemies to keep us on our feet and toes. Because when you know that there are people who are bent on seeing you fail, you’ve gotta beat your chest, show them the middle finger and give them the “we die here” attitude.

DJ Khaled in one of his songs titled ima be alright, featuring Bryson Tiller and Future, towards the end of the song he said, ” they want us to fall, that’ll never happen. They want want us broke. So you know what we gonna do? We gonna become billionaires. From now on when you see me call me Billi. Ima be alright, ima be just fine”

Now, did you notice he didn’t say anything further about those that want them to fall? He just said what he’s going to do. Look at that again and you’ll realize that those wanting him to fall only succeeded in giving him the push and enthusiasm he needed to press further to become a billionaire.

The Difference Between Being Tall and Standing Tall

Sometimes we get carried away with things happening around us that we fail to see what is happening in us. In getting carried away, some totally lose focus. Then they begin to compare themselves with others forgetting that we all have different destinies to fulfill and different races to run. Before you say jack, they’re already compromising. It’s sad enough that our society is on a fast lane.

A society where people are not bothered about where the money came from, instead, they’re only concerned about what to spend the money on or how to spend the money. If you even look further to see what the money is spent on or how it’s being spent, you’ll end up crying, because it doesn’t exceed clubbing, expensive cars, girls, lavish, expensive and ostentatious lifestyle which doesn’t add anything to human development.

Now in doing these, don’t hate your enemies. Though this could be sometimes difficult, but you need to try harder not to hate your enemies. I implore you not to hate because hate is negative and it’s a bad blood hurting the carrier. Just like unforgiveness, it ties the you down. You maybe thinking that you are hurting your enemies by hating on them but you are not. You are only severing the ladder with which you are to climb to your next level.

As a matter of fact, you are giving them a boost by hating on them while keeping yourself down and tied. Another reason you don’t have to hate your enemies is because they are doing a very good job at keeping you on your feet. A wonderful job at making you see reasons to keep winning. A wonderful job at making you never to back down and never to see weakness as an option. A wonderful job at making you always pursue success and the best. I think they deserve a shout out and some accolades, not hate.

Finally, do not hate your enemies, show them love. Do not repay evil with evil and of course, always do you; and you gonna be just fine. I advise you not to lose focus or get distracted with what is happening around you. Always do you. Be original. Always ask questions but don’t be rude. Keep a positive mind and you gonna be just just fine.

Keep winning.

Credit:  Buchi Manuels